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Precautions while Working on Addictions / Habits
Exercise for second chapter of
Gita
In the previous page we discussed about working on
addictions and habits. here will discuss some pre-cautions to be taken care
of to ensure success of the task.
Cautionary note: Be aware of the tricks of the Ego. When you start
working on your habit you will find it is easy for a few days. This is the
trick of the Ego. It wants to give an impression that you overcame the
addiction. So do it at least for 41 days. We have seen in healing page of
Sakthi-foundation that most of the treatments in folk medicine and
Ayurveda are given for 41 days. This is to represent a new birth in
us, because we are for 41 weeks (including egg release) in our
mother's womb.
After a few days of quit
practice you would see that the habit storms back and
temptations like a hurricane will try to swallow us. Do not
yield to the temptation and witness all the justifications the Ego preaches
to you not to give up the habits. It will try to say that you do not need to
do such practices to master yourself. You are a strong personality and for
you these petty practices are not needed.
Reminder
Again a reminder, the importance of this exercise is to keep
witnessing your thought processes and Ego's fear and restlessness while
doing the practice. The witnessing is very important because witnessing
weakens the power of Ego. You will understand about this in later chapters.
What to do when temptations arises?
Temptations become inevitable in the
beginning. Witness the temptations and then you might see that the more you
witness the lesser the power of temptation. It is like watching someone who
is planning to steal something in a grocery store. The more you watch or
stare that person the more uncomfortable he or she feels to do the act.
Witnessing -the power of Bheema
It is very interesting to note that Bheema the
second Pandava kills all 99 brothers of the enemy including Dur-yodhan
(symbol of Ego). Bheema represents presence or the witnessing attitude which
is very powerful means to transcend Ego.
Another approach is to do breathing exercises like
Pranayama and also Yoga. This also helps to a significant extent. Breathing
exercises and Yoga should not be done mechanically but with full awareness.
The mind tries to run away from the present moment and wanders. Doing
breathing exercises and Yoga focusing on all the twists and turns you can
being the mind to the present. In-fact this is most important for doing all
physical and mental exercises. Yoga or any other exercise is a waste is not
done with this witnessing attitude. Healing occurs when we do Yoga will
witnessing attitude because that connects the mind and body.
To be in the present is the "Present" (gift) of life.
Mind-body co-ordination comes only through the witnessing attitude.
Unfortunately our minds are so occupied with the memories of the past and
anxiety of the future, we seldom are in the |"present". To be in the present
is the "Present" (gift) of life. This Gita exercises are oriented to bring
out all these jewels you can adorn and make your life precious.
Walking
Walking out doors is also another way. Walking
should not be accompanied by music appliances on the ears or talking. Silent
walking observing things around you and simultaneously paying
attention that you are observing things is a great way to overcome the
temptations of Ego.
Chanting
Another way based on our personal experience
is to do chanting. Chanting helps in weakening the Ego. Chanting is to
repeat a small word. It could be any name of a person, plant, animal, bird
or any object. It could be chanting of Krishna's name or names of other
spiritual traditions like Buddha, Jesus, Allah etc. The chanting can be done
aloud or silently. The point is not to fall into the trap of temptation. In
the initial stages try to avoid situations that prompts temptations to
handle it better.
Share your experience
Please share you fun experiences of your Ego trying to curb your Gita-exercises. Write to gethealed@sakthifoundation.org
and also let us know whether we can share that in this site with your
identity concealed.
Before you proceed to next chapter.
There are more to come in the next chapters. Please continue to the third
chapter only after practicing the second exercise at least for a week. With
practice this would be another version of Gita you would read without any
practical use.
Please
click here to continue to read chapter-3.
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